Gratitude and Living a Long Life 

This Florida woman, Mildred Kirschenbaum, is going viral on social media with this piece of life advice. 

“I want to share a thought about attitude. I recently turned 100 years old. And yet, I have friends who are 15-20 years younger, and their attitudes are going to cause them not to survive to my age. 

They’re not grateful for anything. Their attitude is, ‘I don’t see my kids more than once a week’ or ‘the food I was served was cold and bad.’ Their attitude is not acceptable. 

If the food isn’t quite right, so have an extra dessert! If you hear from your children once a week, that’s fine. They call you once a week, you call them once a week. And be grateful that they are enjoying life. 

Change your attitude. Look at the positive side of life. I think THAT is what got me this far. I try my best not to sweat the small stuff and to have a positive attitude.” 

Mildred, 100 years old, lives alone, drives, pays her bills online, texts loved ones on her iPhone and never misses happy hour. She has become an internet sensation for her advice on living a long and active life. 

Forgiveness is another concept Mildred discusses. 

“At this point in my life, I’m 100. When I go to bed, I may not wake up again. Why carry an unnecessary burden? Why wake up in the morning and, even though you don’t think about it, you’re angry at somebody? They don’t deserve your anger. If they’re not important to you, just shelve it. If they’re important to you, reach out.” 

Some of Mildred’s videos appear on the lighter side, including one she shared about getting tech-savvy, no matter your age. 

“We live in a computer world. Either you go with the flow or you fall off the train. This is a tech world. If you have a computer and don’t know how to use it, there’s a book called “Computers for Dummies.” Don’t say, ‘I don’t know how to retrieve emails.’ There’s no such thing as, ‘I don’t know.’” 

Mildred has an iPad, an iPhone, and a Microsoft computer to help her stay in touch with people, get information she needs, play an occasional game of Words With Friends, film her videos, and do her banking.

“The only checks I mail are birthday gifts,” Mildred said. “Everything else is online.” 

Other topics Mildred discusses are navigating the road at 100 years old, why she chooses to live alone, the safest way to get up if you fall at home, and directions for her chicken soup recipe which was requested over and over.

“Taste it. If you don’t have enough salt, add it. Don’t be afraid to improvise.”

One key to longevity, Mildred said, is getting out and about — being social. 

She enjoys playing bridge or canasta to keep her mind sharp and stay connected with others. But one of her favorite ways to be social is attending happy hour at her community clubhouse or a favorite local restaurant. 

“I do enjoy happy hour. There’s usually no one there even close to my age but that’s no problem whatsoever.” 

We could all take Mildred’s advice .

A passion for helping others

Helping people help themselves has been a passion of mine for as long as I can remember, when I stumbled onto this company via friends, while looking for safe household cleaning products it was a no brainer. Now, almost 21 years later, I’m still using healthy products, made in the USA, from a company I trust for my family while helping others to do the same. Win, win!

This is kinda a big deal so I’m sharing again….because it needs to be heard. 

Maybe you’ve seen my posts over the last 14 years and quietly thought to yourself , “awww how cute…she’s trying a work from home project”…. Or honestly, maybe you inadvertently (and incorrectly ) threw us in the MLM bucket which rarely holds much merit…

It’s fine. I think a lot of people do that (they don’t know any better, But everything is different here and it’s time we start getting loud about that! 

When you know better… you DO better. 

So here we go:
USA Today has named The Wellness Company one of America’s Most Trusted Brands

T R U S T E D 

This part really matters. We live in a world where (unfortunately) trust feels all but lost. People are divided. They don’t trust much. It’s so disheartening. Trust is something that carries so much more more weight than it ever used to. Would you agree? 

America’s Most Trusted Brands 2025 study was one of the largest and most comprehensive consumer trust studies ever conducted in the United States. It was completed at a time when overall trust in institutions is at historic lows—yet trust remains one of the most valuable assets a company can earn.

The rankings were determined by USA Today and their research partner, Plant-A Insights Group, which surveyed more than 24,000 US consumers and analyzed 359,000 brand reviews.

The study measured “trust” based on five key factors:
  • Emotional connection
  • Trust and transparency
  • Likelihood to purchase
  • Alignment with personal values
  • Reliability

And “little ol us”….. we just be out here competing with the Johnson & Johnson’s and Proctor and Gamble’s of the world and are being recognized as one of the best of the best. 

The survey named only one-tent of one percent of ALL American companies as the nation’s most trusted companies. 
And here we are, just doing our thing…like we have for 40 years. 

If you need a store that you can fully trust…. I GOT YOU. No fluff. No hype.  It’s the real actual deal.

Success

Success looks different for everyone. For some it’s paying off debt, for others it’s having freedom to travel, and for some it’s just more breathing room in life. What does success look like to you? Maybe…

⭐️ It’s spending more time at home with your family?

⭐️ Having a schedule that works around you?

⭐️ Simply not stressing every month about bills?

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐘𝐎𝐔? 😊

I love hearing everyone’s answers 💗

Loving what I do

Out of all of the careers I’ve had, helping others to reach their goals physically, mentally and financially is the best choice I have ever made!!

To say the R3 program has been a game changer for me is an understatement.
R3 has significantly improved the quality of my life in not only managing my tremendous weight loss three years ago, but it has also improved my energy levels, sleep habits and my mood. I’m happier now and know those one-hundred-plus pounds are NEVER coming back.

Recently, I was invited to join a weekly “Wellness Zoom Party” with five other R3 Coaches. We all took turns sharing advice, tips and the impact it’s made on our individual lives. There were so many remarkable success stories as well as non-scale victory stories told. Hearing how this program has changed the lives of so many others, fuels me to continue to share R3 with as many people as I am able.

Work works!

We have double points and $1 memberships.
This is the perfect time for me to share my favorite store!
Let’s have a conversation!
The work I do matters—and, it only works when I work!

Word of mouth

It’s surprising to me how people on Facebook trust strangers who pitch items they can buy at local stores or online on platforms like Amazon, and then go on social media to promote these items.

Yet when a friend offers to show them a store that can save them money, provide fresh ingredients, and potentially help with health and finances, they often don’t trust them enough to even take a look. they automatically shut down.

This highlights the challenge of building trust and direct relationships in a fragmented digital space, where personal connections can be overshadowed by the influence of social media and online marketplaces.

I said yes

Over the years, I’ve realized one thing more than ever: Everyone needs additional income.
Business owners are having to hustle twice as hard, just to make the same money. Employees are worried about cutbacks and layoffs. Most people who work from home are struggling to make it. In most home based businesses, people are faking it till they make it, but they never make it or ashamed to be honest. They put on a show for everyone to see that has nothing to do with reality. Many are one month away from bankruptcy or losing everything.

My heart aches for those people. Those good, God-loving, church-going people that deserve to have A Good Life. One without worry and fear of losing everything. I’ve been there. More than once. I know what it’s like to be on food stamps and to require a box of food a week from the ministry. Or driving for Uber until you nearly run out of gas with a car full of passengers. Knowing that depression was the result and still trying my hardest to be strong for me and family.

Today, I’m grateful. I’m grateful that I had the courage to say yes to something new. Something different. Twenty years ago, I said yes. Because of that yes, I have stability and security. It’s a real business, with real customers buying things they really want. It’s real. It’s fresh. It’s honest. And I love it!

I’m looking for four people

I’m looking for four people that have an interest in a healthier lifestyle that would like to help me in sharing about an online Wellness Company dedicated to educating individuals and families on living a healthier lifestyle and providing a healthier home environment for their family.

Let’s meet over a cup of coffee or glass of tea and I’ll explain more. Only serious inquiries please. Message me here or email me at barbara@hayseedscreative.com

Why I Switched Stores…

I want to support American made & Manufactured in the USA products. I the company I purchase my household goods from is exactly that!𝐒

This company has and offers products consumers need:
•Affordable quality
•Ingredient transparency
•Convenience
•Intentional direction of allocating funds
•$100 credit for new customers 100% money back guarantee
•Never spending extra.

They make it easy. You just switch where you buy your household products. They offer monthly rewards in cash back for loyal shoppers.

Plus:
•Over 450 essentials we use daily
•Customize your Box with your favorite products
•Quick Shipping

You have choices with what you bring into your home—make them healthy ones.

Time = Freedom.

Being self-employed or building a side business has many benefits for the right person:
– Flexible schedule
– Creative freedom
– Unlimited impact and income potential
– Personal growth opportunities
– Independence and autonomy
– Tax deduction advantages
– Pursuing personal passions
– Building a legacy

At the same time there are challenges … like having staff meetings with yourself.
In my experience, the benefits far outweigh any challenges. Just this past week a friend needed my support and I was able to make a choice to be there.

The benefits of being self-employed:
– Work from anywhere fitting my purpose around a personal choice.
– Being in-touch but out of reach as I decide on what gets priority at any particular moment
– Being in business for myself, but not by myself with colleagues with a common purpose who can cover for me.

What do you love about being self-employed? Or are you looking to build a PlanB side business into time freedom?

Make it a great Tuesday!